University is the easiest time to make friends — and it still feels hard
Everyone around you is new, which means everyone is looking. The trap is waiting for friendships to happen automatically because you share a lecture hall.
Where student friendships actually form
- Societies you attend more than twice, especially the small ones.
- Study groups that meet in person, not only in a group chat.
- Part-time jobs, volunteering and campus sport, where you are on the same side of something.
- The city itself: language exchanges, run clubs, open mics, cheap gig nights.
If you commute, or you started late, or you are the only person from your country in the room, you are not behind. Pick one thing a week and be the person who keeps showing up.
