Loneliness with a baby in your arms
New parenthood shrinks your world at exactly the moment you need people most. Old friends drift because your hours changed. The friends who fit now are the ones who understand a 7pm bedtime and a conversation interrupted nine times.
Ways in
- Park and playground regulars — same bench, same time, twice a week.
- Baby classes and buggy walks, where nobody minds the noise.
- Daytime coffee instead of evening plans. Meet where the day already takes you.
- Swap numbers early. A shared "we are both awake at 4am" thread is a real friendship.
